Travel partners

“You don't really know a person until you live with him, travel with him or do business with him.” I could prove through my own experience that part of this quote is true. It happened when I traveled to Europe with a good friend of mine. Of course, the trip was outstanding, but some things happened differently than I planned.

It is common belief that friends are one of the best travel partners that exist. That is why I decided to plan a trip with a friend whom I will call John. This journey started in Spain, then Italy, next Germany, later Czech Republic and finally Netherlands.  The first days were incredible. John and I had did many activities that I had planned before we traveled to Europe. I was getting to know new places. I was stunned because of the wonderful views and the imposing buildings I found in every city.

Yet not everything was tickled pink. We had a rough couple days on the half of the journey because we did not agree on what to visit or where to eat. I had scheduled many places to see, like museums or traditional restaurants, but those places, in Jhon’s view, were not interesting. This situation put me down because I felt that my opinion was neither valued nor appreciated enough. We struggled to find solutions, but it was really difficult and also frustrating. After that, we decided to go one’s own way during the trip. However, I could enjoy the last countries by myself even though John and I were separated. To be honest, I am still thinking that it was the best decision for us because I visited many more places that I would have not seen if I continued the trip with John. The trip ended and we did not talk to each other. 

Unfortunately, it must have been a couple of months before John, and I could talk again as friends. We both have strong personalities, and we are also proud at times. Now, I know that being too proud can negatively affect the decisions I have to make. For this we had problems during our trip. But it is true that he is a good person, and his friendship gives more good things than bad. Therefore, despite the drawbacks we had, today we are still friends, and it makes me happy.

Lastly, I consider that in order to choose a good travel partner, it is crucial to find someone who either wants the same things as you do or likes the same kind of tourism. Otherwise, problems may arise if people do not know how to deal with those circumstances. However, I also learnt that, even though you plan everything, you should be able to adapt to new situations. We are all different and it is important to respect their opinions and find solutions when issues appear.